When using a prostate massager, it’s best to use plenty of lubrication. This will help to reduce any discomfort, making the experience more pleasurable. It’s also important to communicate openly with a partner or sexual companion during this process to ensure comfort and safety.
The Prostate Massager
The prostate is a gland located inside the rectum. It is found 1-2 inches up the anus on the stomach side of the passage. To find the prostate, insert a gloved finger with lube into the anus and gently push on the front wall toward the penis. The area will feel like a lump or a bump and will often give off a sensation similar to the urge to urinate.
Once you’ve found your P-spot, start touching and massaging the area with a prostate toy that has a flared base (or a regular sex toy) and is positioned over the anus. Apply a small amount of pressure and hold for 7-10 seconds, then release and repeat. This clenching-and-releasing motion stimulates the prostate and can lead to pleasure and orgasms.
For some men, prostate stimulation can be more stimulating than sexual activity outside the anus. In fact, some men have reported experiencing a full-body orgasm and others may ejaculate fluid from their penis. Aside from providing pleasure, prostate stimulation can also provide relief from symptoms of some medical conditions such as BPH and erectile dysfunction. However, further research is needed to confirm these benefits.